Today, let's break down the 3 Stages of Attraction. These stages are crucial to understand if you want to elevate your dating game.
- Impact Value - This is all about the first impression. What she notices in the first 30 seconds really counts. Think about your posture, smile, style – everything that makes an immediate visual impact. It's not just about looking good, but about presenting yourself as confident and engaging.
- Initial Attraction Phase - This occurs in the first 30 minutes of interaction. It's what she experiences as she starts to get to know you. Here, it’s about demonstrating your value (DHVs) in a subtle manner. Whether it's your sense of humor, your storytelling, or your charisma, it's the time to shine without overt bragging.
- Deep Attraction - After the initial connection, deep attraction is where things get real. It's about what she learns from your shared life experiences during the dating phase. This stage is built on emotional connections and genuine shared values and interests. Any demonstration of higher value (DHV) here will resonate more deeply and have a lasting effect.
Remember guys, attraction is not just about what you say, but how you say it and what it communicates about you. Work on these stages, and you'll not only find but also keep that connection you're looking for.
Until next time, keep it stylish and authentic!
Shaun Michael [Discovery]